Speaker and podcast guest
Dr. Arnie Buss
Relationship coach, co-founder of The Simpatico Communication Method, and co-author of Hear Here, based on the work of Selwa Said.
I help couples and people navigating divorce build practical communication skills so they can feel heard and work through conflict with less escalation.
Talks and interviews
Speaking topics
You’re not fighting about the dishes
Recognize when an everyday disagreement is really about feeling unheard, and learn how to get to the real conversation.
Tracking
Practice listening for what the other person is trying to say before deciding how to respond.
Say how it landed
Use Impact Statements to describe what happened and make a clear request without assigning blame.
A ceasefire with your ex
Explore ways to lower the temperature in difficult conversations during divorce and co-parenting.
For event organizers
Introduce Arnie
Dr. Arnie Buss is a relationship coach and co-founder of The Simpatico Communication Method. Drawing on the work of Selwa Said, he teaches couples and people navigating divorce how to listen closely, express needs clearly, and handle conflict in ways that help both people feel heard.
His topics fit events and podcasts about relationships, family, divorce and co-parenting, and personal growth.
Speaking inquiries
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